tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768161346673969764.post3405496705740540759..comments2023-06-12T13:40:55.636+05:30Comments on I see, I say..: Friends, Love, Sex and MarriageChanzhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08035532453737679843noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768161346673969764.post-31519198210137839942009-12-16T16:32:28.175+05:302009-12-16T16:32:28.175+05:30Absolutely... :)Absolutely... :)Chanzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08035532453737679843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768161346673969764.post-50023774919185198312009-12-16T15:56:26.537+05:302009-12-16T15:56:26.537+05:30Great post!!
life without a commitment?
after all,...Great post!!<br />life without a commitment?<br />after all, one should realise that keeping the commitment is the game in life.Sorcererhttp://www.evilsfury.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768161346673969764.post-50488202140544506572009-12-01T13:12:35.650+05:302009-12-01T13:12:35.650+05:30Stefy and Darshan.. Welcome to my blog...
Well ya...Stefy and Darshan.. Welcome to my blog...<br /><br />Well yaa.. Sex is no longer considered as a part of love and emotions. Not that every one around here thinks like that, but I do agree that majority of the people do take it to be as a part of lust. Pure simple lust. Actually, there is nothing new about it. This tradition has been carrying on since time immemorial. Even in medieval India, when the country was ruled by mughals, the kings had numerable wives. Obviously it couldn't have been love. Ot lets talk about the period before that. Mahabharat and Ramayana... If there were really 100 kauravas.. why... how... was it lust... or was it love.. I fail to understand...<br /><br />@ Darshan : I cant help but laugh at our culture. I give the same argument as above. Why is it that this relationship is only acceptable in the western countries. It did exist here in India at one point of time. Infact, at thet time, the western countries were orthodox about it. Wouldnt u say that.. Its not that I agree that such a relationship is always good. Obviously there are pros and cons of pure love and pure lust. Friends with benefits is a package. Complete package. (ofcourse, again with pros and cons of it own)Chanzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08035532453737679843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768161346673969764.post-4478455286173100542009-12-01T11:51:49.243+05:302009-12-01T11:51:49.243+05:30Well, this "friends with benefits" term ...Well, this "friends with benefits" term may be new, but the relationship is not. It's existed for as long as the society is in existence. The reason it is not openly accepted (as in the US) is because of social constraints.<br /><br />One thing I would say is that this is the best form relationship that can ever exist between a guy and a girl. What we call "(forever) love" and marriage are just delusions. Nothing like that has ever happened with anyone in the history of mankind. So, I think this "friends with benefit" thing should be accepted by the society as a standard form of a relationship.<br /><br />Great post, especially for it's coming from a girl... :) Thumbs up!Darshan Chandehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10721030762177780619noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768161346673969764.post-45774633068139376312009-12-01T11:47:33.005+05:302009-12-01T11:47:33.005+05:30Hey , earlier literature used the word 'making...Hey , earlier literature used the word 'making love' instead of the word 'sex'. Now the action 'sex' is separated from the emotion called 'love'... Simply meant that you don't need sincerity or commitment or love in the act of sex... Just lust!!!stefyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03051504747349521002noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768161346673969764.post-26998226761656281952009-11-30T12:32:36.899+05:302009-11-30T12:32:36.899+05:30I have no clue why they cant get married. The most...I have no clue why they cant get married. The most understandable reason may be their respective families not agreeing to their relationship. Sad it is though, but there isnt any outcome. Acually, we are all cowards. Umm.. M not really to sure about that though. You can say that sometimes we do not really wanna hurt our families and sometimes we do not really have the guts to talk about love life in front of them. If only, it was much simpler..Chanzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08035532453737679843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768161346673969764.post-12329919181728757512009-11-30T09:26:52.904+05:302009-11-30T09:26:52.904+05:30and another thing, amazing post and an even more a...and another thing, amazing post and an even more amazing blog! im glad i cam across this post of yours!<br /><br />u've got another follower ;)oRange*https://www.blogger.com/profile/03239294667530000687noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768161346673969764.post-48873740932661822132009-11-30T09:24:49.389+05:302009-11-30T09:24:49.389+05:30hey, once i got reading i immediately got hooked o...hey, once i got reading i immediately got hooked on coz im more or less in the same boat. <br />something i dont understand is, even if both of them dont want to give their 'thing' a tag ..its obvious its a relationship. they accept it or not, it will remain that. friends plus the physical intimacy cant be called flings nor can it be termed as 'plain just friends'<br /><br />and why cant they get married to each other? i hate it when people think about the end way before itself. this is a way, attracts the end and nothing else. that one-sided thing u spoke about is BOUND to occur, ask me :PoRange*https://www.blogger.com/profile/03239294667530000687noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768161346673969764.post-57863153285240366552009-11-28T10:44:34.713+05:302009-11-28T10:44:34.713+05:30wow.. you guys rock.. you make me feel my own self...wow.. you guys rock.. you make me feel my own self now. Its amazing.Chanzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08035532453737679843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768161346673969764.post-64439712908421486422009-11-28T08:17:51.356+05:302009-11-28T08:17:51.356+05:30Life is weird Chandni.. and very unpredictable.. I...Life is weird Chandni.. and very unpredictable.. I'm sure you're also one of those who get a lot of mood swings.. <br /><br />So welcome aboard.. we're both a part of "mood swing society" now <br /><br />:-P<br /><br />Now Cheer up honey :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768161346673969764.post-5271920289658394012009-11-28T00:06:56.443+05:302009-11-28T00:06:56.443+05:30Haha!!
u will surely better with time..
Time is th...Haha!!<br />u will surely better with time..<br />Time is the arbiter after all..<br />just view my other posts wenever u feel sad..<br />they might get ur mood up..<br />Ciaow...Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17737743663167912430noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768161346673969764.post-71184900508104335132009-11-27T23:12:43.669+05:302009-11-27T23:12:43.669+05:30welcome to my blog nipun... As i said, it is a deb...welcome to my blog nipun... As i said, it is a debatable topic. Everyone has the right to express their views and people actually do that. If only life was much simpler. If only there was just one correct answer to only one question. <br /><br />But thanks dude. Don't know but I am getting too senti senti types today(ref:the post above which i wrote just now) so wanna write a lot but I better not. <br /><br />If only life was simpler. :(<br /><br />Keep visiting dude...<br /><br />PS: Sorry for the sad welcome. I am not usually like this. I am more bubbly bubbly types. :)<br /><br />There, now I am feeling better :)<br /><br />Cheers..Chanzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08035532453737679843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768161346673969764.post-80038857125812262562009-11-27T22:13:37.395+05:302009-11-27T22:13:37.395+05:30Thats something real serious n debatable topic..
M...Thats something real serious n debatable topic..<br />M here for the first time and what I found is the connectivity with this post.<br />Commitments aren't easy to make. So lets keep things under each and everyone's perception, how they react in their life. Its all about what Neha and Amar think and may God convert them into men n wife.<br />Its kinda funny thing that I m connecting myself to such a story (Sex not included). The truth which I also thought is what has been written very nicely by you. For sure u loose a gr8 friend..<br />Gr8 Work./<br />NutsAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17737743663167912430noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768161346673969764.post-29884505421100603632009-11-27T16:19:03.962+05:302009-11-27T16:19:03.962+05:30done that already... :)
I agree that chetan bhaga...done that already... :)<br /><br />I agree that chetan bhagat has this masala and crispy gossip stuff in hi writing. But I also agree that his books lighten ma mood. While reading his books, I am too relaxed and enjoy every part of his insensibility. Maybe coz all of us still have a kid in ourselves..Chanzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08035532453737679843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768161346673969764.post-63440664835223481352009-11-27T12:14:37.131+05:302009-11-27T12:14:37.131+05:30Btw. I forgot to ask you to follow my other blogs...Btw. I forgot to ask you to follow my other blogs too. :-)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768161346673969764.post-14799431120734434732009-11-27T12:13:34.032+05:302009-11-27T12:13:34.032+05:30Hey Chandni.. First things first..I'm followin...Hey Chandni.. First things first..I'm following your this blog now. <br /><br />And on Chetan Bhagat's books: I personally at times enjoy a "masala read" as we call it. His writing is juvenile. Majority of college students can relate to it. But it lacks the maturity and sensibility, wisdom and experience. His writing is more of materialistic. <br /><br />As much as you and I criticise these self proclaimed "benefitted (just) friends" relationship, it is already around us.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768161346673969764.post-81309058775673303952009-11-27T00:41:42.588+05:302009-11-27T00:41:42.588+05:30Each to his own..:)Each to his own..:)Chithira Menonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06155162307427861574noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768161346673969764.post-48894066824948619402009-11-26T22:36:23.126+05:302009-11-26T22:36:23.126+05:30Welcome to my blog Antarman. I agree with you. Tr...Welcome to my blog Antarman. I agree with you. True it is that commitment makes a relationship work. Infact I agree it to to such extents that I feel that this is the only thing which makes you rely on your partner. <br />I ams sorry but I didnt get your big comment.. Maybe there was a problem in posting it. :(<br /><br />But do keep visting my blog..<br /><br /><br />:)Chanzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08035532453737679843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768161346673969764.post-55173871808652840062009-11-26T09:36:08.795+05:302009-11-26T09:36:08.795+05:30I think I left a very big comment here:(
though n...I think I left a very big comment here:(<br /><br />though nothing can be said , but commitment always makes a realtionship work...plus this type of relationship willmake their future marriage to someone else very diificult to sustain, but then may be I am old fashioned,today as wesee the celebrities,they get new partners before the leave even the old and they are happy.Samvednahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14103943612564758951noreply@blogger.com